A Big Problem

My sister.
Her first relationship with her bf makes my whole family worry for her. They are together for a year plus now. She seems to trust very much in her bf. We feel that they're an incompatible pair, in terms of age, mentality & character. But is her choice & if we force them to breakup, she might blame us. The present situation makes me even worrier. She kept visiting his house whereas he didn't even stay in our house for more than half an hour, and that was the last time. Although my dad dislike him in apparent, he should take initiative to show his sincerity that he really loves my sis; the more he should frequent our house. In future, if they were to get married, I'm afraid my parents may lose a daughter. And I'll not be having a sister which I once adore so much... I hate to see my sis being controlled by some stranger. Yes, a stranger whom we've no chance to understand. All I can do is to give pointers now & then. And also dedicate merits to her. The rest she has to look out for herself.

I'll be away from 10th to 21st May. Participating in Vipassana retreat at St. John's Island. Hope to share some nice experience when I'm back.